Self confidence is a treasure. It’s something that you can use to achieve goals, and no one can take it away from you. Only problem is, not a lot of people have the level of self confidence needed in making things work. If you’ve been insecure all your life, don’t worry, there are ways on how you can improve your self confidence. Before I give you tips though, let me tell you that improving self confidence doesn’t only take minutes, hours or days. It is a long process, but it can definitely be achieved.  So, here are simple tried- and- tested ways on how you can improve your self confidence.

TAKE TIME TO RECOGNIZE YOUR INSECURITIES

Before you can start building your confidence, take the time to recognize all of your insecurities. Write it down on a piece of paper, and reflect on it. Ask yourself why you are insecure about such things, but don’t find the solutions just yet. Just feel all of those insecurities, then let it go by burning the paper. Once this is done, forget about them, and move on to the next phase.

ACCEPT YOURSELF FOR WHO YOU ARE

You might think otherwise, but you’re really not so bad. Once you accept the whole you—your weaknesses, your strengths and your issues—you get to move on with life, and stop being so insecure. Just remember that nobody’s perfect, so you don’t have to be ashamed when you’re not.

IDENTIFY YOUR ACHIEVEMENTS

Once you’ve worked on your insecurities, take time to identify your achievements. It could be something as small as baking a cake or as big as developing a selling strategy for your company. Everybody has achievements, so be proud about yours. Write down all of the strategies that you can remember, even when it dates back to your childhood. Give yourself time to feel proud about them, and keep that pride within you.

PUT ON A SMILE

When you have to do something you’re really afraid to do, just go ahead and put on a big smile. Lift your head, and believe that you can do it. Remember that people really have no idea whether you can do something or not, so just go ahead and pretend that you can do it. Funny, but it actually works in lifting your self esteem. Also maintain a presence of mind, and give yourself time to think before talking (especially during a job interview).

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Do you have doubts over who you are as a person? Do you always wonder how you are going to be received at the next meeting or social gathering? Do you think that there are certain parts of your personality that you would like to improve upon? When it comes to self improvement, no-one is perfect and therefore it is something that all people should be looking to do throughout their lives. If you ever want to change a part of yourself and make yourself better then there are certain steps that you should take towards this end.

The first thing that you need to do is to accept the person that you are. One you know who you are and accept what you are then you will have the base from which you can go about your personal improvement. By lying to yourself about your characteristics and over blowing what you actually are you will never get anywhere. You need to be honest with yourself if you want to develop.

Once you know what you are then you can evaluate yourself and work out which parts of yourself you are wanting to improve the most. If you want to become more confident then you need to factor this is. If you want to be more charming then this can be done.

You now need to focus on changing your negative habits towards what you do. You need to prevent yourself from following through with something that you want to change. Awareness is everything and when you recognize yourself doing something, make sure that you stop. After a while your habits will change.

In addition to developing better habits in your behavior, you can also take steps to improve your overall self image and the way you present yourself. Take care to improve your personal appearance. Get recommendations or advice on personal care and grooming. Good nail care, hairstyling, and skin care tips can help you look healthy and attractive. Good personal style is a must when it comes to putting your best foot forward. If needed, get some up-to-date makeup tips or fashion tips and incorporate those into your daily routines. You don’t need to be excessively trendy, but keeping yourself up-to-date can help you feel more confident in yourself and can also help you make a good first impression to others.

Last of all, look at yourself from a new perspective and viewpoint. Think about how you might appear to other people. When you change your habits consider how you now look to them. If you want even get some feedback from them as well on how you are changing as a person. If they see a change then you will be taking steps in the right direction.

If you follow these steps you will find yourself improving and developing in no time.

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For years growing up I wanted to believe in something… something besides Santa Claus and the Easter Bunny. As a child, I would sit in trees for hours, watching all the birds and the clouds floating by. I was inspired by the vastness of the universe and all the things that it could hold. Then, when I was around fifteen, I discovered alcohol.

For the next twenty years I would search for my place in life. And alcohol was always right there with me. At which point I became an alcoholic, I’m not sure, but the realization was made pretty early in my twenties. At one point, I remember having this sinking feeling in my soul that no matter what I accomplished in life, I would always be left unsatisfied. One thing I realize now, I had “having fun” confused with happiness. My life, while addicted to king alcohol, was full of calamity.

Deep down, it seems that everyone wants to believe in some power greater than themselves; in some universal life force that connects all living things. For most of my life, I wanted to believe in a power greater than myself, but I lived as if I was the center of the universe. What I lacked was some type of spiritual guidance and a reason to live besides drinking alcohol and having fun.

At the age of 36, after years of trying to get sober, I finally accepted the fact that I was an alcoholic and that I needed to learn about treating alcoholism, my alcoholism. So I entered a 28 day rehab center, actually it was the third time I had tried rehab, but this time I was doing it for me!

One of the most important things I have learned in recovery is how to find happiness in yourself. Once I learned how to love myself, I found that everything I need to be happy is already inside of me! Prior to embracing recovery, everything seemed like a major traumatic event, my life was full of calamity. After years of working on a spiritual program of recovery, I’m now able to match calamity with serenity. I’ve finally found something to believe in; myself and the spiritual power of the universe in which I live.

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Drug addiction knows no boundaries it does not matter what the color of your skin is or how much money you make. In the end none of this matters it will win. I have not known anyone who could keep up with an addiction to heroin for long. I decided that I was going to try to help out whoever I could today. This is one way I try to pay back what was so freely given to me. The other way I try to give back is that I chair NA meetings. This is a very positive way for the newcomer to feel a part of something so give it a try chair a meeting.

Now I know that it does not take a mental heavy weight to stop using drugs. Therefore I decided to call this post heroin smoking for dummies. I am not saying that anyone is a dummy because addicts are some of the most intelligent people in the world. We had to be smart like a fox to do the things we did in order to survive and get our drugs of choice. Now let’s use those smarts in a positive way to stop smoking heroin. Here is some food for thought, many heroin addicts did not get a second chance or maybe they did and did not take advantage of it. Then because they did not stop using when they had the opportunity they are spending the rest of their lives in prison for a drug related crime.

My suggestion to everyone is to stop chasing the dragon smoking heroin while there is still time. One way to do this is to go to heroin addiction treatment. This a great place for any addict to turn over a new leaf and change your life. If you go you will not have to worry about being very sick from withdrawal because this will be taken care of medically. Now it’s up to you take what ever action you have to so you do not have to end up in prison or die in active addiction.

Good luck

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Everybody have problems in their life and at some point they enter a situation where they feel miserable and unhappy. This is a stage in life where your self esteem and confidence are in very low levels and you do not know what to do to get out of this vicious circle. Although the reasons that cause this situation are different for everyone and they are based on many parameters, there are 3 things you can do that can change your life instantly. These 3 things can help you revert the situation and see your life from a different perspective. In summary, you need to find the lost energy in your life, you need to find ways to improve your self esteem and you need to find ways to be happy and enjoy life.

Find the lost energy in your life

One of the reasons that people become unhappy is because they do not have the energy required to do things and live an active life. Instead they are overdrawn by tiredness and the stress of daily life and become passive and inactive. They watch life passing in front of them without taking the advantages life has to offer. If you feel that you are in this phase then you need to take actions. You can start by changing your diet. What we eat and drink during the day plays an important role in the levels of energy we have to do things. This is something that many times is not taken into account by many people but a healthy diet can make a real difference in our activity levels. It is proven that by following an alkaline acid diet you can greatly improve your energy levels, improve your concentration, enjoy a better feeling of well-being and generally have a better health in many areas. If you are wondering how I can alkalize my body then the answer is in healthy foods and especially fruits and vegetables. Try for 10 days to avoid eating meat, processed foods and fast food and eat fish, lots of fruits and vegetables and drink fresh fruit juices instead of coffee or soft drinks. After the elapse of 10 days examine your mood. Are you feeling better and more relaxed? For sure this is a technique that works and it worth’s to try it out.

Improve your self esteem

Another factor that makes people unhappy is because they have low self esteem. People with low self esteem have no faith in their self and they are very pessimistic about their life. If you really want to make a big step and change your life then you definitely need to improve your self esteem. People with high self esteem approach life from a different angle and they are optimistic about the future. Learn to appreciate the small things in life, learn to respect your self, your beliefs and abilities and if you manage to do that other people will also respect you of who you are and what you can do.

Find happiness in your life

Happiness is what makes your life enjoyable and what can give you strength and courage to over stand life difficulties and obstacles. People who are happy have learned one thing. They have learned how to enjoy life and appreciate the little things that give you a lot of happiness. Happiness is on those small things and not on the big things as many people believe. Happiness is not in money, big houses or luxury cars but is on the love of your friends and family and on those everyday things that happen in life. Happiness is when you enjoy a nice meal with your friends and when you watch a good movie with your family. Happiness is when you go home from work and have time to spend with your family or do activities you like. Do not look for happiness in tangible things but look for happiness in things that you do and happen everyday. Take the effort to learn how to find happiness in your life and this will help you change your life.

A change in your life will only come if you want it and if you try and find it. It will not happen just like that and it will certainly not happen if you are passive and pessimistic. Search for a better life because you deserve to have a better life. Let the pessimism and negative thinking go away and start thinking positive. Become active and take control of your life instead of being controlled by it. Each new day is a great opportunity for you to make a new beginning. The sooner you do it the better is for you.

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Do you feel that your professional life is stuck and you feel that you need to change your career and seek a new direction? There are some thoughts that create brave decisions that are able to change your life. The career change may be one of those decisions. But is it realistic to talk about career change in the midst of economic recession? Yet in this very moment is urgent more than ever before to do careful planning of your career. So take your job in your hands and not wait for external factors (such as a dismissal) to ” force you” to make a change in your career.

You want something better or you know that you have more capabilities, but you do not know what. You know that you are ready to deal with what is important to you and what is making you to feel better and give you more rewards. It is time to evaluate and see your true potential.

Create your own action plan for a career change

Maybe you have some ideas for the career you want to follow, but you have not defined it enough in order to take appropriate action.

The desired direction can mean a complete career change, a major upgrade in your career or even the decision to start your own business. These are all relatively large steps that you must consider and determine with yourself. To do this step successfully you need to develop strategies and a comprehensive action plan. Then you will know what to target and easily determine the next steps to take.

The right strategies will give you permanent results and the changes you want. You do not want to discover in a few months or years that you are still in the same place you are now. The strategies will guide your actions and help you clarify your priorities, rather than scattered acts and loose your valuable time, causing confusion and irritation.

To develop an action plan and define the new direction you need to think and refine the following areas. The goal is to find the perfect job that suits you because you are a unique person.

The vision, your mission, and your purpose: How do you imagine your life, yourself, your job, and your relationships in 5 years from now?

Your personal values: What gives you motivation and what is most important to you? E.g. want to help society and others? Want power? Want creativity, diversity, independence, recognition, good pay, and security?

Your strong points, your talents and your skills: What personality you have, e.g. you are honest and enthusiastic and what skills you have that is useful in many areas of work.

What opportunities and sources or resources you have and what do you need? What should you do to get what you are missing? For example get more education, do a market research, network with the appropriate people.

The ideal life, career or business: What level of responsibility you want to take? You Want to Lead? Want to get this job full time or part-time? Do you want to be close to your home or in public transport? Do you want to live in the mountains? Do you prefer large organizations or small businesses?

What do you like and what you are doing well? Passions, interests, what inspires you, what you like and what not. E.g. are you good with computers? You like to repair machinery or furniture? You like taking photos? Are you good at math? Do you like helping others to solve their problems? Do you cook well?

Do you like to make co-operation with people in your work? Do you prefer the creative people? Do you prefer friendly people, or people that keep the relationship professional standard? Want a boss who communicates with you regularly or someone who gives you independence?

Look first what your really want, if it is very likely that you should settle to some extent, to get as close as possible to what career you choose will give you satisfaction and success in the coming years.

20 steps for a successful career change

1. Start with a “career check up”! What have you accomplished so far? What motivates you and makes you passionate in your work? What are the aims and ambitions for your future? Do you use your skills and your talents to the fullest extent? Do you feel satisfaction and commitment? What is important to you? What are your values?

2. Make a «market research» for a new career. From the moment you discover what is your dream job, explore possible job openings. Speak to a career specialist (career consultant, executive coach or head hunter). Send your resume to companies that interest you. Even if there are no vacancies at the time, your resume will be entered into the database and the company is likely to invite you in the future, when there is an available position.

3. Do analysis of your skills and talents. What are your strong points and what areas you need to improve? Which of these abilities and work skills ensure that you have competitive advantage in the labour market? What skills you can easily use at another position, if for example, you are good in communication and interpersonal relationship management, you can effectively use these skills in all positions that require contact with customers.

4. Find a mentor. Surveys show that internationally there is a significant correlation between mentoring practices in the workplace and career development, especially for women.

5. Estimate how much satisfaction you get from your current job. Keep a diary of your daily reactions to the issues arising in your job and search for repetitive items. What aspects of your current job you like and what you cannot stand? Your negative feelings are associated with the content of your work, the culture in your company or the people with whom you work together?

6. Assess your interests, values and skills through various sources of self-esteem, like the exercises in “What Color Is Your Parachute?” by Richard N Bolles, a book for those who want to change careers. Remember the successes you had in your work, what projects have you completed more easily and what business activities you prefer. Your goal is to identify in what you are really interested and what are your most valuable skills.

7. Exchange ideas for alternative careers discussing your core values and skills with your friends, family and colleagues you trust, and create a network that will advise and help you to easily find new jobs that suit your needs.

8. Do research and comparative assessment of the various areas of interest in order to identify targets that would require deeper investigation. Your goal is to find out what areas, which companies and which persons you should go after.

9. Read more about what you are interested in, find research and statistics and make as many personal contacts you can.

10. Be the shadow of one or two people working in the field that you are interested. Spent hours or days to see how they work and learn (7 ways you can learn from other people and change your career and life), so you will not be like fish on land in case you change career and profession.

11. Try to work as a volunteer or as a freelancer at the beginning. So you will see how good you will do and learn the job without substantial and psychological costs.

12. Search for learning opportunities, which would link your past with your new professional area. Many private schools and colleges offer courses for professionals.

13. Search for ways to develop new skills in your current job, which you could open the way for a change. If your company can provide training in some new technology or expertise, express your interest.

14. Think about alternative roles in your current job, which could take advantage of your knowledge. For example, if you are a store manager in a large retail company and tired from the long hours and weekends that you have to work, think of the transcription in a company as a wholesale representative in retail.

15. Get in touch with people who can help you change your career. An important step to change career has to do with finding people who can help you get the job you want. If you think about it then you would certainly find out that there is someone you know, an old friend or associate who has a relationship with your dream job.

16. Get in touch with this person and ask a recommendation letter that will confirm that you are fit for this position. Even better, ask the person to talk about you to the employer and support you in your job application. But beware; this should not reach the limits of exaggeration. This is not about a favour, but for a good-honest-talk about your character and your skills.

17. Get a little background / work experience. Even if you do not have any experience in the job you are searching, it is never too late. You can get some work experience by just finding a relevant job (even unpaid). You can take part in a large project that requires external partners or participate in a government project or volunteer programs for young people. You can find jobs for such programs through dedicated search engines available on the web (depending on the country and region you live).

In any case you need to find a job that will allow you to gain some knowledge, and experience you can talk about in an interview with your prospective employer.

18. Adjust your expectations. The most disappointing when someone is looking for a new job is that you have to adjust your aspirations for success. Even for Michael Jordan, one of the greatest athletes in the world, he had to come to terms with the fact that he was not the «Air Jordan» when he went to play baseball with the White Sox.

It is almost certain that you will move up the scale faster than in your previous work, but not without cost. You must prove that you deserve it to the clients, colleagues and your bosses. A great past does not guarantee a greater future.

19. Utilize your skills and experiences. Although you may switch to an entirely new career, the fact that many jobs require the same skills remains. We do not live in the past where someone could not become a farmer a blacksmith and then a sailor.

Most jobs, regardless of the company, they require some basic skills such as sales, communication and proper time management. If you succeed in these areas then it is almost certain that you can succeed in almost all types of work. And you must constantly prove that you can manage it, utilizing the experience gained in your previous work.

20. Believe in yourself. Put on your best smile, boost your confidence and go after your dream! If you do not do it, nobody is going to do it for you.

In conclusion, it is three steps you must follow for a successful career change. The first is to acquire good recommendations that will open the door. The second is the enhancement of skills and experience from your previous work in your new. And the third is just beyond you. To grab the opportunities that will appear in front of you and give your best self. Do not hesitate. You can really do it.

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Inspiring life quotes can change your life. The inspiring life quotes can give you power, inspiration, motivation and strength to take the big step in your life. Inspiring life quotes were shared by people who managed to achieve something remarkable in their life and who have reached a point that their sayings can influence other people. The society is a live body. We are dependent on it, but it depends on us. Inspiring life quotes have the power to influence you and society. Also, inspiring life quotes can help improve our lives, if we think differently and look at problems from a different perspective.

This article presents a selection of 50 inspiring life quotes both from famous and anonymous people.

1. I say thank you to everyone who told me NO. This is why I managed to reach where I am (AL. AISTAIN)

2. What most people really want is someone to listen, to respect and understand them. When they realize that you understand them, they are motivated to understand your viewpoint.

3. In Kyudo (Japanese archery) you do not aim to find the target. You must find the right attitude, the right steps. The arrow goes to the target itself.

4. The day will dawn, either you get up or not. (John Gardi)

5. Act as if everything depends on you. While you do it and when you finish, to pray because everything depends on God.

6. The battles are won by people who know how to withstand.

7. The neighbour’s cow makes more milk from our own.

8. The harmony builds houses and the precipitate destroys them.

9. Hands who work never cadge.

10. Those who have faith they will be given more. (Bible)

11. To be successful in life you need to have the dream of the director, not the crank of the actor.

12. The work does not need trouble, but way

13. You can recognize an artist from this job.

14. You will never know how many believe that you will succeed. It is important that you believe it your self.

15. We do not appreciate enough what we obtain very easily.

16. We are working to achieve not to acquire. (ELBERT HYBBARD)

17. My only desire is freedom so that I can deal with what I like.

18. You should save your time and spend it where you must spend it, because otherwise less time will be available to be spend where it should be spend. (PERIANDROS)

19. Do you Love life? Then do not spent time, because this is from where life is made.

20. Life is more quality than quantity.

21. Courage is resistance to fear, domination over the fear, not absence of fear.

22. One step is enough to change your life.

23. Take risks! All life is a risk. Those who succeed in life are those who are willing to dare. The boat that goes for sure never goes far away from the coast.

24. The best results are often accompanied by equally large risks.

25. Life is too short to be miserable.

26. Some of us look like trolleys. We are useful only when we are pushed and we are easily reversed. (JACK Harvey)

27. The most underdeveloped region in the world is the soul of man.

28. The man who can control himself can control others.

29. The man who always looks back never goes forward.

30. We can more be useful to society by correcting our own mistakes, rather than trying to correct the mistakes of others.

31. In your personal relations you should consider other people to be wise as Socrates and strong as Hercules.

32. There are two types of communications: one with words that is expensive, especially if you make it over the phone, and one with no words that worth’s a fortune.

33. The good thing is contagious as evil.

34. The wound created by the language is much more profound than that caused by the knife. Because the knife injures the body, while the language injures the soul. (PYTHAGORAS)

35. You live only once, but if you manage your life right, once is sufficient. (Joe LOUIS)

36. When you give yourself the permission to lose, you are lead to a certain defeat.

37. The minds and parachutes work best when open.

38. People do not react to the idea of change, but in their own change from someone else.

39. True happiness is when you try the best for yourself.

40. I do not want to become better than anyone. I want every day to be better than yesterday.

41. The more you offer, the more you get back. (GOUAIIN NTYER)

42. There is a huge lie – that we have limits. The only limits we have are those who believe. (GOUAIIN NTYER)

43. Money – like health, love, happiness and all the other things you want for your self – is the result of a life with purpose. It is not an end in itself. (GOUAIIN NTYER)

44. Your personality is not given by your culture or your family. It is created by your. (GOUAIIN NTYER)

45. Do not ask for anything and you will get a lot! (GOUAIIN NTYER)

46. The destiny of man is his character. (HRAKLEITOS)

47. The most enjoyable thing in life is to do a good deed in secret, and someone to discover it by accident. (TSARLS Pubs)

48. People who do not help other people, it is impossible to feel happy. (ARISTOTLE)

49. Making a mistake is not the end of the world. Allow yourself to do it.

50. Experience is the name that everyone gives to his mistakes. (OSCAR WILDE)

The above 50 inspiring life quotes can help you see life with a different perspective and make you think how you want to approach your own life.

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To achieve a change in your life you first have to change your brain, to change your thoughts and way of thinking. Few are those who have not thought at some point in their lives: «What should I do to change my life». For some this means relief from the «bad» habits such as smoking, alcohol or sweets; for others it is a job that has become intolerable, a weak relationship, something vague that does not meet their needs and sometimes their entire life seems to need a change. Anyone who has tried to change a habit knows that it is not easy. Any change in the way we live is an adventure that requires a lot of strength, patience and persistence. They key for changing your life is in your brain. Those who can manage to change their brain they will manage to change their life.

Change Your Brain, Change Your Life: The Breakthrough Program for Conquering Anxiety, Depression, Obsessiveness, Anger, and Impulsiveness

Every life change is a sacrifice

Each change in your life, even if you want to do it, is a sacrifice, a separation, something that you leave behind. Even if you want to change something that tortures you, that devastates you or something that does not make you feel good, it is a piece of yourself, it is familiar, known, accessible, enjoyable and perhaps something that you love. However, what usually happens is that you believe-or want-to-believe that changing your life is not difficult. That is paradoxical.

Even if our personal experience teach us differently, even if we have tried many times and we have not achieved the change in our life, we always stretch our ears and listen with great interest any advertising that promises to relieve us easily, quickly and painlessly from our bad habits, any story that tells dramatic changes: About someone who lost 20 pounds in one month, about a person who managed to stop smoking from one day to the next, about someone who resigned from his work and set up in little time his successful business, for someone who got divorced after difficult years of marriage and recently found the great love of his life. Encouraged from such striking examples, we put ourselves ambitious targets for the next week – month – season -year. But we often forget them after a few weeks and we end up with a bitter taste of failure that stays deep within us.

Is therefore any effort to change your life doomed to fail? Things are not quite so, although those who have given special focus on changing lifestyle and habits keep a very careful and cautious attitude. There are events in our lives, such as an illness, an accident, which are very strong and they force us to make large and real changes to our lives. But this is the exception. As confirmed by the statistics, 25% of all major “change your life” projects are abandoned on average after 15 weeks. Very few are those who can manage with little effort, from one day to another, to abandon the «bad» habits, addictions and unpleasant situations. For the majority in order to succeed in such a process they must first change their thoughts, their way of thinking. Changing your brain is the major step in the overall change life process. You may not be able to achieve this the first time. Most people pass the same test again and again. Around five to six times is the usual number of failures until «the final round».

To change your brain and your life you need a lot of effort and hard work. This is something we are not aware of when we are considering a change in our lives. This is natural. Who wants to be stressed? Who is willing to suffer deprivation, negative emotions, anxiety, distress, seeking something that is supposed to be better? Even if we can imagine, hear, or hope that the change will be to our benefit, it does not cease to be something vague and uncertain.

The high expectations

The main reason why efforts to change your brain – change your life fail, according to experts is due to the “the false hope syndrome”. Usually people set high standards and have high expectations and the end result makes them think that they failed. For example «I lost only 17 pounds, and I intended to lose 25, I failed». In other cases we want to change many things simultaneously: «I took the decision to start a diet and quit smoking during the next vacation». There are also cases that we believe that a change will change our whole life, will do it better (“I will lose weight, and I will certainly find the love of my life”).

These high expectations do not allow us to be happy and enjoy the small successes and pleasures of life. It’s all in our brain. Instead of being disappointed and filling your brain with negative thoughts you should try and change your brain to use these little things to reward yourself, to take courage and continue. When we see that our dreams are not full field, then we are disappointed and abandon our efforts returning back to our old habits. And even though, the success stories about “life changes” are rare in real life, many people manage to do it. Is there a secret prescription that some people know and they succeed but others don’t?

Change your brain – Change your life – a process that takes time…

To be able to change your life you need to first realize that success and long-term change is a process that requires a lot of time and it is done in phases. This is the outcome of research by doctors and psychologists who researched the issue, particularly with people who wanted to change habits such as smoking, high alcohol consumption, poor diet and sedentary lifestyle. Anyone who really wants to change something has to be armed with patience and perseverance and not looking for easy solutions. They key is changing your brain, your way of approaching life. There are no miracle pills or programs, but some internal processes that you must follow in order to reach the desired result.

Refusal. People in this phase believe that they are fine; while everyone around them sees that there is a problem. This may be due to genuine ignorance, if for example they do not realise how damaging is their attitude, or reaction, when others become pressing.

Awareness. People who are at this stage know they have problems and that they should do something to change their lives. They are still far from being really active. They weight the pros and cons of a change, and usually, at this stage they still find that the disadvantages from a life change are more than the advantages: «If I quit smoking, I will get fat», «if I divorce now, I won’t be able to cope financially». It is a difficult period because, while they feel the desire and the need for change, they feel unable to do so.

Preparation. This stage differs from the previous one is two main areas: The person is giving more attention on the solution of the problem and less attention to the problem as such, it is considering the future more than the past. It starts to think about the steps to follow for a real life change. For example, following a diet, which can be used with out disturbing the rest of the family meal, analyzing the advices for quitting smoking and creating an action plan to quit.

At this stage it is important to give your self as many incentives as possible. Be very specific; imagine the benefits you will receive. The stage hides a danger: the euphoria of preparation can lead to the real change been forgotten. Be careful, make sure that your brain remains active and always try to think how you can achieve the change in your life practically not only theoretically.

Action Plan and perseverance

To make the next step from the pleasant stage of preparation to actually making a change, it is necessary to have a precise «action plan». The more well-thought and researched plan the greater is the chances of success. It is therefore very important to have a good preparation before entering the actual stage where you will implement the change in your life.

The next stage is that of resistance and perseverance. The main difficulty is the pressure from other people, the stability of our appreciation and of course the anxiety and stress that emotionally are forcing us to go back to the old, familiar life. These are all unavoidable, so one should not feel frustrated and give up if there are a few drawbacks in the change process. Changing your brain is not an easy process, most people do not succeed at first, but they succeed after 4-5 failed attempts.

The last stage is that of stabilization, which for many people is a way of life. The change in our habits, our self is a process that may never end permanently. Alcoholics for example must avoid alcohol for a lifetime, if they do not want to start drinking again. What is certain, at whatever stage you manage to get, is that change is a difficult adventure, during which you leave something known for something unknown; you meteor between two situations, and this should make you tender and lenient with yourself.

Besides the internal phases that you will inevitably follow in order to change your brain and your life, there are also some practical and easy ways that can help you teach your brain to welcome a life change and think positively about success.

Be optimistic that you will be able to change your life

You need to make the extra effort and change your brain -your perception- about yourself and imagine yourself as a successful person. How to be successful in life is about keeping this strong image in your brain, and do not allow it to fade. Over time, this perception will evolve in your brain and will be stimulated. Do not try to challenge the reality of this intellectual image because it will be dangerous. Your brain will also try to fill in the gaps. Always have in your brain the image of success regardless of any drawbacks or unfortunate events.

Each time that a negative thought concerning your powers and abilities invades your brain, try to change your thoughts and bring to your mind something positive.

Fight and overcome your fears

When building the image of success in your brain do not take into account any possible obstacles, instead try to minimize them. Any difficulties must be analyzed be treated efficiently and eliminated. Try not giving them more power and meaning than they really have. Often fear exaggerates the difficulties and «hides» their true dimension.

Visualize your success

Think of your brain as an image playback unit. These images are generated from your thoughts. They either give us hope, power and creativity or they make us frighten and reluctant to make the next big step and change our lives.

When you are thinking negatively, your brain will create negative thoughts and you will end up with negative reactions. The opposite is the effect of positive thinking and positive thoughts. Positive thinking stimulates our brain to produce positive thoughts and images. To start thinking positive you have to create these positive images in your brain and take advantage of the inspiration and creativity they will create.

Nobody is perfect

This is one of the most important advices. Do not be impressed by other people and certainly do not try to copy them. The only one that can be effective in your life is yourself. Have in mind that that irrespective of how dynamic and successful some people look, they for sure have the same lack of self-confidence and fear as you do.

Analyze your thoughts

Analyse your thoughts. Find out what is causing you the feelings of inferiority and fear. It is possible that these feelings of inferiority have their roots from childhood. In such case it is better to get professional advice from a specialist in order to understand why you feel and behave in a particular way. To change your brain you first need to change your thoughts.

Believe in your skills

Try to understand your skills and things that you are good at and then increase that by 10%. This does not imply that you will become selfish. Instead, you must believe in your own forces and ways in order to be able to change your life. Only when you believe in your self you will be able to change your brain and your life.

Adopt a positive way of thinking

The first step is to change your brain and start thinking positive. The second step is to translate these positive thoughts into creative thinking. Positive thinking alone will not help you, creative thinking will. Creative thinking is about planning and setting goals for the present and future. You can start from simple hacks, everyday things that are part of your daily schedule. Doing this will help you get organised not only physically but also mentally and will let you eventually meet your goals.

Allocate some time for your own personal development

Get active and start transforming your thoughts into actions. Allocate some time from your busy daily schedule for your own self-improvement. Try and find ways to simplify and facilitate your daily obligations, which would result in savings of your valuable time that is needed for your personal development. Give priority in solving the problems of everyday life and then use your creativity and energy to change your life. Focus first on your personal relationships both in your work, family and friends.

Start dreaming about your new life

The power of the brain is enormous. With dreaming alone it can magically take you to places that can make you happy. Use this power of your brain to relax and get inspired for your new life.  Do not stop dreaming!

Start dreaming about what you would like to achieve in your life, your relationships and your career. Think about it intensely with as many details as you can. This process will make you feel better and will give you the incentives to reach your goals. Try and do this every day thinking and dreaming, again and again and again!

So, it should be clear by now that if you can change your brain you can change your life. Get rid of the fears, the negative thoughts. Turn your possible failures into success and boost your self-confidence. Make your negative thoughts positive and your will also be more acceptable in your environment. Take control of your brain today and eventually you will be able to change your life, and live the life that you dreamed about for so long. Fight all the evil thoughts from their root and stop them from reaching the surface.

Changing your life is in your hands…or rather is in your brain!

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The first step for changing your life is to get rid of negative feelings. Negative feelings can prevent you from thinking and behaving reasonably. They prevent you from seeing objectively and prospectively the situations you are experiencing. When we are under the influence of negative emotions, we tend to see only what we want to see and remember only what we want to remember.

Have you noticed that most people have a tendency to focus on the negative side of life and ignoring the positive events? The unpleasant sell more! You just have to take a look at newspapers, magazines and television and see that they are invading and bombing us literally with unpleasant negative events. Rarely good news made the headlines! Rarely, we give the necessary importance to the good events in our lives! Why?

Our negative emotions and feelings are stronger and more painful. Our negative memories never cease to be cruel while our positive memories become weaker over time and we tend to forget the intensity of the positive emotions that we experienced. We tend to magnify the negative feelings, the unfortunate events in our lives, because of fear and terror. Many times we do not know how to handle them and even if we know it is a quite painful process to do. Many times we are afraid our fear! With happy feelings things are simple. The joy is always welcomed and it never brings emotional dilemmas and fears. The joy is something we expect and we are ready at any time to experience at the maximum.

Unfortunately with negative feelings you panic yourself with negative thoughts, torture, suffering and this makes the process of changing you life a denial. Negative thinking can damage your thoughts and make you weak, and unfortunately the negative effects that accumulate around you, drive the situation from bad to worse.

What causes negative feelings?

Negative emotions include anger, sorrow, hate, regret and envy. In some situations, it is quite normal to express these feelings. But when they last for long periods, you are in a negative psychological condition and there is the risk to stop enjoying your life. It is therefore important, to understand the mechanisms responsible for your bad psychological state and to take measures that will gradually allow you to better control the negative feelings.

Emotions are complex reactions. They may be psychological and related to what you think or can be organic and related to what you feel.

You should know that your brain reacts to what you think. It releases hormones and chemicals that create a state of arousal. All feelings, positive or negative affect you in this way.

These are complex procedures and the truth is that we are not prepared and we do not have the necessary skills to handle them. This is why we often find it difficult to properly handle negative psychological situations.

Negative emotions make us feel sad and unhappy. These emotions are leading us to condemn not only ourselves but also others around us. They reduce our self-confidence and our self-esteem.

The hatred, anger, jealousy and regret, can be completely normal under certain conditions. If, however, they last for long periods, will remove from us our love and enthusiasm for life.

The longer this situation lasts, the more difficult becomes the problem. Also adopting wrong ways to deal with negative emotions may aggravate the situation. For example, if anger is not managed effectively this will lead to violence, and as a result will make the situation worse for us.

How to eliminate negative emotions and change your life?

Have your ever thought what would happen if you began to see your life positively, if you were willing and able to make the big step and change your life? If you took your life a little lighter, if you could laugh and learn from your mistakes? Probably not!

There are several things you can do to in order to properly treat the negative emotions. It is important initially not to enlarge the problem because this will re-create the problem constantly in your minds.

You also need to accept the fact that sometimes you will experience negative feelings because they are an integral part of human life. It is better to focus your attention on the search for ways to escape and to make yourself feel better.

Relaxing in various ways such as reading, walking and talking to friends, can help considerably. You can also seek help from the doctor, the psychologist, or your family.

It is important to try to recognize the reasons that make you feel regret, stress, anger, jealousy or hatred. Recognizing negative emotions and knowing what is their cause will help you to prepare in advance to address them.

Physical activity reduces stress and the chemical substances associated with the stimulation caused by stress in our bodies. The relief offered by physical activity, allows us to better deal with the negative psychological feelings.

Finally, it is necessary to leave the past in the past. It is not for your benefit to review the bad situations of the past because this can disturb you from seeing the benefits of the present and the future.

Try therefore to see things from the positive side. Any unpleasant fact, any negative feelings, any fear can work in your advantage and for your benefit! Behind them all lies a lesson that helps us to grow, to mature, to move forward and become stronger.

Wake up tomorrow morning and put your best smile, even if it rains and if the traffic on the road is intolerable or if your colleagues are irritating … Your smile can act as a mirror and suddenly you’ll see others smiling. Smile will change your mood, will increase your energy and your positive energy will surely make you look more beautiful, more powerful, more ready to tackle the problems or difficulties that may arise. All problems have a solution so do not let them take over you. After the storm there is always a rainbow. So do not stay permanently tuned to the rain and clouds! When you catch the bottom, do not give up, it’s your time to get to the surface and change your life! Use negative events as examples to avoid and as shields to protect yourself in the future!

Learn to experience life the positive way! Convince your self that you are not afraid and fight for your dreams, win your joy, do not lose your optimism and especially do not think negative! Become a winner of life! Treat you life, as you want to be treated.

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In life all people seek and pursue success in what they want. To succeed, however, is necessary to be ready to change your life. In order to do that you need to clarify what you want, and set clearly defined goals and objectives. People who succeed are those who spend some time to think and record what they really want to achieve in their life. By doing so they are able to continually refer to their goals and have always in their mind, the objectives and priorities set.

The result is that they manage to focus on their goals. They do not unfairly waste their energy in other situations that does not allow them to achieve their targets.

The setting of goals and priorities is therefore a very important process that must take place at the beginning. It serves as a road map that will allow you not to get lost in the maze of situations arising in daily life.

How then can you set your goals, how can you record and make your own road map to reach the success you want and manage to change your life?

What hacks and techniques can you use so as not to be misled and be able to deal with all sorts of obstacles that will come across?

1. Make sure that the goals you set are something you really want and it is not just something that sounds cool or it’s nice to achieve

When your goals represent something that you want strongly, then your subconscious will help you find the right people, places and conditions that are essential for achieving your goals.

Set goals on key areas of your life: For your family and home, for your professional career, your financial condition, your physical and mental health and other areas that are priorities for you as the spiritual, religious life, culture or education.

2. It is necessary to record your goals and refer to them regularly

Create your own road map, according to what you want.

By writing down your goals it helps you clarify your thoughts better and form a clearer picture in your mind. At the same time you can re-visit your target list, if possible every day, to see your goals and remember what you want to really succeed in your life.

3. Record what you will gain by achieving each of your goals

This will enhance your morale during the difficult times that you will inevitably encounter. Think and write as many reasons as possible about the benefits you will gain by achieving all your goals.

Later, when you read the plan, your road map, you will have stronger incentives that will push you towards your goals.

4. Visualize your success

It is very important to try visualizing in your mind that you have achieved your goals. For example, if you aim to get a house, close your eyes and visualize your new home. Form a mental image and bring it in your mind regularly.

This technique helps because it operates in your subconscious and thus will help you in your daily actions to achieve your goals.

5. Always aim high

The higher you set the bar the more you will achieve. Even if you do not achieve your goals entirety because you have set high goals, you will reach inevitably high.

It is necessary that your goals are not conflicting or unrealistic. For example you cannot set a goal to buy a house that is 15 or 20 times your annual income.

6. Take action today do not postpone it

When you set your goals and specify your action plan, do not delay, but start working on it. Time is valuable and your well thought and planned moves should not be postponed but bring you closer to your goals.

7. Anticipate that you will encounter difficulties

In the attempt to change your life is normal to find in your way many difficulties, challenges and adversity. Because you are bound to encounter difficulties, try in advance to see what difficulties you will find and consider ways to address them.

This practice will prepare you to effectively handle the constraints, with less stress and risk of errors. The parallel analysis of the possible difficulties and thinking of ways to address them will help you avoid many of these.

8. Make relations with successful, motivated people

Create friends and allies, and improve your relations with people around you.

The human relationships are the most valuable asset you have.

9. Be careful to whom you talk about your goals

Do not discuss your goals with anyone. People in your family, friends or others you know may have a negative approach and may disappoint you. There are people who do not set goals to reach higher and are not able to understand you or give you ideas that will help you. Discuss your goals with people who have a key role in achieving your goals.

10. Every time you take a decision, ask your self if this decision gets you closer or further away from your goals

To be able to take the right decisions, that will lead you towards your own road map and closer in achieving your goals, you need to often refer to your goals and use the technique of visualization.

This will make it easier for you when you need to take a decision and you will have to respond to your internal question whether this decision will take you closer or further away from your goals.

11. The change of goals is not necessarily a bad thing

During the course of action you may realize that due to certain situations, you have to modify or change one of your goals.

This is not necessarily bad. Instead you can consider this as a form of success because you understood early that it is in your interest to change something in your strategy.

In conclusion we emphasize that if you spend a little time to set your goals and consider the strategy to follow, then you will be able to take the big step to change your life and reach higher levels of success.

But remember that changing your life and how to be successful in life is difficult, requires discipline, concentration and clear goals about what you want to achieve.

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Many times people are looking for recipes for success and happiness outside of themselves and complain about their fate and the conditions they live in. This behavior makes them dissatisfied and unhappy. How to be successful in life is a process with a lot of obstacles and problems, but in most cases the way you treat your life is that which determines the degree of success, happiness and satisfaction.

When sometimes things are getting difficult most people give up and abandon the effort. We know that success takes time, energy, needs focus and patience. While one person hesitates because he feels disadvantaged, someone else is busy with making mistakes and thus taking the responsibility for life success. Too many people do not demand anything from their life, they require little, and take the minimum and are happy with the minimum. If you want to be successful in your life you need to do a plan and visualize your success. Below you can find 15 ways to help you achieve your goals and be successful in life.

1. Be active and not passive

People have the desire to be active in their lives and control their environment (family, other people, work, etc.) and not being controlled by it. Self confidence and the strength to take the right decision for your self (and not do what will please others) are important parameters that can help you overcome stress, beat passiveness and be successful in your life. Take your decisions and stop feeling sorry for your self. If you need to mourn for a loss or a bad situation do it, but do not to be consumed by it. Accepting the real facts and doing a realistic assessment is the starting point to set targets and to change your life.

2. Set your goals

The ability of personal leadership begins by setting specific goals for your self. Usually people have broad and vague desires, but they do not develop a specific plan or strategy to achieve what they want. It is very important to start by setting specific targets and learning to focus on your goals, avoiding and bypassing any destruction. This enables better concentration, productivity that will eventually lead to success. This personal success will help you overcome your fears of failure and enable you to take the big step to change your life and meet your goals.

3. Set priorities

There is a need to become a manager for yourself, which means that you must learn to organize and implement your activities so as to align with your objectives. It is important to set priorities, because normally you cannot manage everything at once. Evaluate your goals and decide what is truly important to spend time and effort to achieve them.

4. Positive thinking

Think and visualize your personal victory. This is the best way to face every situation i.e. as a personal victory, not defeat. Instead of thinking that everything in life is like a cake and whoever takes a piece this will make the remaining pieces smaller for others, think that in life there is plenty for everyone. Rather then start thinking that you will not succeed or that there are insurmountable obstacles, adopt a realistic attitude and believe that you can accomplish your goals, even if you have to experience some difficulties.

5. Come closer to other people – cooperate

First understand others and then try to understand what is the best recipe for your personal and professional relationships. What others think and what they want, what they fear and how you can reach them better? These questions should guide your behavior in order to free from the fear that «others cannot understand me» and to develop functional, successful relationships.

One can achieve more through cooperation. You need to take care when you select the people to co-operate with, but also you need to set the strategy you will follow to handle the cooperation and relationship with other people. However, this is better than to hide it in your shell and believe that you will make it all alone, without any cooperation or help from others.

6. Renew your self

Your self has many dimensions: emotional, social, intellectual, physical and mental. It is necessary to try and improve your self in all those dimensions and to cultivate the potential in each of these areas. You need to find your personal pleasures and not to always follow what others do or want. This means that everybody should put their fears aside and be renewed, giving personal meaning in life.

7. Be Persistent

If you refuse to abandon the effort every time and at any cost, if you continue to be persistent but not intolerant, if you keep your eyes up and not around then your can be successful in your life and your name can be added to the endless list of successful people. Those people who refused to quit in the first hitch. There are many cases of people who did not give up despite the difficulties and failures.

Did you know that:

Nelson Mandela spent 27 years in a very harsh prison. Once released, he was elected president of South Africa and received the Nobel Peace Prize.

Michael Jordan was excluded from the basketball team of his school.

Conrad Hilton had bought some hotels, but lost all of them during economic recession. His accountants advised him to declare bankruptcy. He refused and with perseverance and determination has become one of the largest hotel chain owners, bearing his name and worth several million dollars.

There are many people who refused to abandon the effort even when they were faced with unbeatable difficulties. The list is endless, George Washington, Albert Einstein, Oprah Winfrey, Aristotle Onasis, … If you want your name to be entered in this list of people then your persistence should set aside your weaknesses and help you achieve your goals. Unfortunately, few are those who continue despite the difficulties, most people when they encounter a minor setback they give up and fail.

8. Understand that failure is a temporary situation

There are no exceptions to this rule. Some people know this due to the experience they have with persistence. You should not accept any defeat as something other than a temporary situation. Your desires and objectives have to be persistent so as to convert the temporary defeat eventually into victory. You should become one of those people who stand on the edge of life and watch other people give in to defeat and not ever rise again. Those who understand that failure is a temporary situation.

The society recognizes the genius and talented but it compensates economically and socially those who refuse to stop the effort. It recognizes and compensates perseverance.

9. Keep trying until you finally win

Perseverance is nothing but a mental situation, and like all other mental states can thus be cultivated. Life can give everyone a plate of dinner and a glass of wine. It requires persistence, however, for those who seek much higher goals and want to be successful. So set your price and move on with your life. The basis of persistent is the basis of desire and occurs as a result of defined goals. To achieve that you should:

Determine your purpose. After setting the goal of your life you must define the purpose of that goal, this knowledge will help you overcome all the obstacles you will face in the way, and is a very powerful incentive.

Do not ever doubt for yourself. There is no room for self-uncertainty in your intention to become successful. Keep your courage high; do not to return to your old limiting beliefs with the first difficulty.

Persistence. It is easy to obtain and maintain perseverance for your goals if you can create feelings of passion and desire for that goal. Do not give up, be open to amazing opportunities and always look for a miracle. Even better you should become this miracle.

Be honest with yourself and clearly define on what needs to change. The change may be necessary and safe to bring success, so be flexible, open and honest.

When something is not working, get rid of it and renew your decision to move on. Do not focus on what goes wrong, concentrate on how to do it well.

Do not interpret your mistakes as failures. The failure is a source of invaluable education. When you see what is not working properly you can see what works well and should move in this direction and closer to your dreams.

Live with gratitude. Acknowledge and celebrate for all that you have this moment in your life. The sense of the unfulfilled extents and multiplies, so look carefully around you and be happy and grateful.

Habit. Perseverance is the direct result of habit, repetition and courage. Take risks, do something new, different and challenging. Get rid of your fears and risks. Really believe that the best way to live your life is out of the ordinary.

The willingness to insist will keep you on track in difficult times. What you usually say to yourself  “Thing of big dreams, but be realistic” is not correct. Always have big dreams and big ambitions, and invest time, effort and flexibility to realize these dreams. Be persistent, but still relaxed, focused sighted but flexible – both in terms of your goals and your plans.

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Three things are certain in life: death, taxes and change. Among the three, most people face the first two with more success than the third. However, we have good news. There is a way on how to change your life that will even be for your benefit. The concept of making changes to life is not the same for all, seems easy to some and frightening for others. The familiarity with the familiar and the already known is always safer and it safeguards from the fear of change, the threat of new and the terror against the unknown.

Taking the decision to make a change in your life, to make a fresh start, regardless if it is a small or large change, has the power to diminish you. A change does not always solve the problems you have with your self and others. The decision for change is good to be the result of an internal process and a clear understanding of what is actually you want to achieve with a change in your life. The believe that you can suddenly stop everything and make a fresh start is utopian: regardless how much you want to leave the past behind you. The best way to make a change is to face your past and plan for the future. Two key questions you will first have to set your self and respond with sincerity and responsibility are:

Why you want this change, what you expect to change?
The change is enough to make you feel satisfied?

Why you may need to make a change in your life?

The most common reasons that may make you to take the decision to make changes in your life are:

• You may want to make a change to your life so as to stay committed in an old dream, which you do not want to abandon or replace it with something else.
• Changes in life maybe the only way to escape from the deadlock you live in and correct the situation.
• The need to prove to others and your self that you are able to carry out a change in your life and move forward.
• We may have tried a lot of solutions and various ways to improve your live without success and you see change as the unique opportunity to solve your problems.
• A combination of all the factors, i.e. To pursue an old dream, an old desire that looks like the only way to get you out of the impasse and make you feel and prove that you are able to achieve something beyond the ordinary.

Why you fear a change in your life?

The denial to change stems from the fear of loss. When you have doubts about a change in your life, ask yourself what is that you are afraid to lose? Is it about control? Is it self-respect, freedom, familiarity, income, or comfort? Discover the root of fear and try to get over it.

Accept that the discomfort, doubt and uncertainty are by-products of change. The more familiar you are with these feelings, the more you will be able to distinguish the real effects of change.

Acknowledge the disadvantages of not making any changes to your life. Imagine how boring life would be if you did not had to solve some problems or if you could not appreciate the hidden opportunities. It is like staying in a boring relationship, because you do want to bother into getting to know new people.

Acknowledge the benefits of change. Do not let your stubbornness hide the benefits of moving to a new situation.

If the reason you need to change is not clear you need to be patient. Do not hurry to make conclusions about its value. Give yourself time to prepare emotionally and psychologically.

Write in a piece of paper five advantages of a change in your life before allowing yourself to deal with the disadvantages. Do not hurry to condemn and to see only the negative side of things.

Realise how many advantages those who are willing to make changes in their lives enjoy. For example:

• Their life rewards them.
• The learn new things with the life challenges
• The problems and drawbacks are a natural consequence of progress.
• Change offers them opportunities for further development.

How to correctly approach a change in your life?

Accept your life’s reality

Try for a moment seeing your life in the eyes and accepting your own reality, whatever that might be. The life acceptance process will help you to identify the real difficulties and conflicts so that you will be able to resolve them. Bearing in mind that reality is always fluid and depends on how you approach it. It is not a given, consolidated entity. The acceptance of the liquidity is a painful process of curing.

Create a hierarchy of what is you want to change

Financial difficulties? Professional disappointment? Relationship problems? Communication problems? Unable to enjoy what you have? The belief that the difficulties are so complicated and that you will fail to handle them creates anxiety, stress, anger and frustration. Instead, the proper hierarchy of problems will make them tangible and give you a sense of control over them. Having in mind that this ranking should be based only on your own subjective judgment and not on what others believe. The subjectivity defines hierarchy. You should accept this without being frightened. That is you should trust your arbitrary subjectivity.

Get the opinion of people that you trust

To avoid sharing your thoughts and problems with others, often makes you feel trapped and isolated towards your difficulties, which inevitably are magnified in your thoughts. In contrast, the sharing of thoughts and difficulties with other people close to you, will help to minimize their significance, and will give you another perspective and possibly a real solution. Having in mind again that the others will give their own perspectives and views about your problems. It does not necessarily mean that you have to follow their advice. You have to listen carefully and consider their views when taking your decisions.

Plan for a smooth transition

Finding alternative solutions to the pressing situations around you, the abandonment of the absolute (with blindfolds) thinking and the ability to offer space and time to yourself to adapt to the new realities, are very valuable conditions. Equally necessary is the acceptance of your own pace and the balance between the things that you «must do» and the things that you would like to do.

As a final thought keep in your mind that the Chinese ideogram for the word “change” consists of the ideogram of the word “threat” and “opportunity”.

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